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The Calm

When underwater, the world above is muffled.  The sounds are hardly detectable.  The sight is blurred.  And the weight of the water pushes on the body like a gentle, loving embrace.
Rye is out of school now until the school can come with a better plan for him.  Being a victim to physical assault and gross [...]

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The Fear And The Confusion

One of the things we deal with on a nearly daily basis is Rye’s fear and confusion.
Despite the fact that he is very social, outgoing and somewhat daring, Rye has a lot of fears.  Many of them are common for children his age and many of them are exacerbated by the fact that he naturally [...]

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IEP Meeting & Clampdown

So, in a strange turn of events I went to the IEP meeting yesterday and the teachers and administrator there apologized for Rye getting out of school suspension.  His case manager asked me to please not think that is how things will go at this school and to not let it discolor my view of [...]

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Smokin A Pall Mall, Drinkin A Colt 45

I am happy to announce that Rye is back in school today.   He did not finish all of the school work sent home for his 3 day hiatus however considering the English teacher alone assigned him 57 pages of grammar work to complete in a grammar book she did not even send home with him [...]

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Learning Disabilities And Emotional Lability

So, AA and Sherry’s comments got me thinking about learning disabilities which then got me thinking about their effect on emotional regulation.  Rye is quite learning disabled.  We have not had him testing recently but we know from previous testing that he has significant dyselxia, short term memory problems as well as processing disorders (auditory [...]

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Not Quite Ready

Apparently Rye was not quite ready to fully jump into the change of schools.  Two days in and he intentionally rough-housed with a friend of his and then admitted to hitting the friend in the face to get out-of-school suspension.  He did it on purpose.  He didn’t hurt the friend at all and this is [...]

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All That Glitters Is Not Gold

Rye started at the new school today.
The new school is very different from the old school.  The old school enrolls primarily upper-middle class students who come from families where both parents went to college, have corporate or professional jobs and live in very large, shiny new houses in planned subdivisions.  The kids are very competitive [...]

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What Just Happened?

Today has been a bit of a rough one mentally.  After an hour(s) long conversation with Rye this morning after he refused to go to school and I completely wanted to strangle him, it became clear to me that he will not be able to continue to go to his current school without imploding.  Or [...]

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I Love You Millions

Dear Rye,
I know you are struggling right now.  The past couple of days have been rough and your mind is on overload.  And yet you are pulling through it.
I can see you are pulling through it.
I know you are struggling with school.  Just when you got really comfortable with Mr. Wonderful, the secure and relaxed [...]

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The Importance of Sleep

I am reminded time and time again of how important it is for Rye to get copious amounts of solid sleep in order to function well and this week has been no exception.  I guess with the holidays and all of the excitement – being off schedule, off routine, lots of time with friends, spending [...]

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Teaching Disabilities

Ok, we have great teachers this year but anyone with a child that has an IEP will be able to relate to this.  Actually, anyone who has ever dealt with a school and teachers will be able to relate.
This is from The Onion and it is so funny.
WASHINGTON—A shocking report released by the U.S. Department [...]

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